10 Things Every Couple Should Know Before Their Wedding
Planning a wedding is an exciting yet overwhelming experience. To help ease the journey, here are the top 10 things every couple should know before getting married:
1. Communication is Key: Open and honest communication with your partner is essential. Discuss your expectations, dreams, and concerns to ensure you're on the same page. This should include conversations about budget, guests, and other details of your wedding day. Of course, it goes without saying that you should discuss other aspects of starting your lives together too, like kids, marital roles, living choices, etc.
2. Set a Realistic Budget: Weddings can be expensive, so it's crucial to set a budget early on. Prioritize what's most important to you and allocate funds accordingly to avoid unnecessary stress. You can also hire a wedding planner or go through a venue that includes other aspects of the planning with their wedding packages (i.e. florals, catering, photography, etc). If you are planning to have your wedding at The Manor, you can view our wedding packages here.
3. Plan Together: Involve your partner in the planning process. It’s both your day, and making decisions together can strengthen your bond and ensure the wedding reflects both of your personalities. You can go over all details together, or divvy up tasks to lighten the load.
4. Choose Reliable Vendors: Research and select reputable vendors who align with your vision. Read reviews, ask for recommendations, and meet with them to ensure they understand your expectations. If you follow our blog, we will be posting about local vendors periodically. You can also find posts about local vendors on our social media pages from our recent Bridal Party at the Manor.
5. Stay Organized: Use a wedding planner or digital tools to keep track of tasks, appointments, and deadlines. Staying organized will help you manage the myriad of details involved in planning a wedding. Many brides and grooms will create wedding binders to organize their ideas as well. Check out this article from Brides.com for top wedding planning tools of 2025.
6. Take Care of Yourself: Amidst the planning, don’t forget to take care of your physical and mental health. Exercise, eat well, and take breaks to relax and recharge. Check out our blog post on wellness here. (If you are local, you can try out a Vinyasa Yoga session by Awaken Yoga or a relaxing Sound Bath by Hummingbird Harmonics).
7. Be Prepared for the Unexpected: Despite meticulous planning, things might not go exactly as planned. Stay flexible and be prepared to adapt to any changes or challenges that arise. You can create a wedding survival kit to help with big-day mishaps. The Knot has a great survival kit checklist here.
8. Focus on What Matters: Remember that the wedding is just one day, but the marriage is for a lifetime. Focus on building a strong foundation for your future together rather than getting caught up in the details of the event.
9. Enjoy the Process: Wedding planning can be stressful, but it should also be enjoyable. Take time to savor the moments, celebrate small victories, and make memories along the way. It can be a fun collaborative activity for you and your partner to bond as you start your lives together.
10. Seek Support: Don’t hesitate to ask for help from friends, family, or a wedding planner. Having a support system can alleviate stress and make the planning process more enjoyable. Plus it gives you a great opportunity for you and your partner to create your “village” that will carry into the rest of your lives.
Of course, there is a lot more that goes into planning a wedding, but by keeping these tips in mind, you can navigate the wedding planning process with greater ease and ensure your special day is everything you’ve dreamed of. Enjoy the journey and cherish the moments leading up to your big day! And of course, stay tuned on our blog for more wedding tips!
